There are no benefits other than producing offspring (which has little merit currently anyway), a small amount of relation and influence, and maybe a useful companion that does not take a companion slot if they are combat-capable. If your potential partner and clan leader are in the same location, this process can take as little as 2 in-game days (my most recent marriage did). There is little actual feel of a relationship budding and blooming into something.

You then admit your admiration, complete two persuasion events, and then buy your spouse from their clan lord. For those who have not tried it, you must find an unmarried noble of the opposite sex between the ages of 18 and 35 (female) or 40 (male), unless I am misinformed. ***Ĭurrently in the game, marriage is a chore that bears very few benefits and is severely lacking in complexity. If you must argue with someone, take it to personal conversations. *** Civil and constructive discussion only, please. ~~ YOU CAN VOTE FOR ANY NUMBER OF CHOICES IN THE POLL! ~~

Mount and blade wiki courtship